Dear (irl),
You need to open your god damn eyes and realize not everyone is perfect. If you want a "relationship" with anyone then you need to be able to accept them for who they are. Whether they are serious or not. If they are not serious then they can learn, and besides, just because they're not serious doesn't mean they don't care. Because let me tell you, people can care a lot and not show it. So get your head out of your ass, open your eyes and start seeing people for who they are instead of keeping your standards so damn high, because right now you might as well just stay single with the way you are. It's probably for the best anyway.